The evidence and research is clear, mental health concerns in adolescents is on the rise. One of the key reasons is our over-protective parenting. In particular, the use of participation certificates, or not keeping score on a football game, which are both examples where we are letting our children down by not giving them the opportunity to develop resilience. We need to change our mindsets and understanding about how to build resilience in our children.
Cultivating Resilience in Children (Video)
Developing the resilience of our children and the mindset to Get Back Up is critical for their future success. In the series of Get Back Up videos we share the key strategies and tips to cultivate resilient children.
Pay Attention to What You Pay Attention To
Whatever we pay attention to reflects what we think is important. More importantly, when we are communicating or being with others, their perception of what we pay attention to then reinforces the respective behaviours.
Overcome Indecision. Generate Hope.
We all have many choices to make in our lives, many of which seem inconsequential at the time but in hindsight are pretty significant. I notice that in many cases we experience significant, and sometimes debilitating emotions surrounding choices, which results in us getting stuck in indecision. If we focus on the past following a decision, we can be overwhelmed by guilt, resentment, regret, and sadness. On the other hand, if we focus on the future, we become anxious and fearful, which often results in us either procrastinating or coming up with reasons why we shouldn't make the decision.
TLC 30-Day Appreciation Challenge
The Challenge: Take just 5 minutes every morning and write down ONE thing that you APPRECIATE in your life today. Do this for 30 days.
Is Mental Well-being a Choice? What if it is?
Essentially, if we believe that mental health is our choice, then we can choose to perceive the world in a certain way. If we believe that mental health is a choice then we empower ourselves to improve our mental health. We give ourselves a chance to live the lives we want to live.
The Ultimate Success Factor: Choice Mindset
The “Choice Mindset” empowers a person to choose their life and to create the life they want. The “Choice Mindset” eliminates excuses. The “Choice Mindset” generates success and improvement. The “Choice Mindset” enables the higher road and lifts us to display integrity and authenticity.
WHY NEGATIVE EMOTIONS ARE NECESSARY FOR SUCCESS
I have recently observed and heard a number of senior leaders (and senior OD and HR professionals) seeking only positive emotions in the workplace from their employees. Furthermore, these same organisations have a view that the experience of negative emotion is ‘bad’ and should be avoided. I am deeply concerned by this growing trend and share below not only the compelling evidence and research but also explain why negative emotions are necessary for success.
What is the most important skill to teach your child?
No doubt if you are reading this right now you are also a parent. Like me, you probably ask yourself how you could be better preparing your child for life.
Unintentional Disabling: A trap for parents and leaders
As a parent of two beautiful girls I understand the desire to protect and nurture. I also know that every parent has the best intentions for the way they parent and provide the caring and nurturing environment that our children need. As a leader I also know that I have a similar genuine intention to develop my people and generate a high performing team.